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Pregnancy and prenatal care

My friend has lost a baby and I don’t know what to say?

It can be difficult to know what to say to someone who has lost a baby. It’s important to remember that there are no magic words that will make the pain go away. A simple, heartfelt expression of sympathy can be the most comforting. You could say something like, “I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m here for you and I’m thinking of you.” Avoid saying things that may come across as dismissive or insensitive, such as “at least you can have more kids” or “it was meant to be.” Just be there and listen to them if they want to talk, and let them know that they are not alone.